I was going to stay silent. I thought maybe my two cents really didn’t matter. But then, I kept getting these thoughts and they weren’t going away. Usually the ones that don’t go away turn into blog posts because I feel it’s the Holy Spirit nudging me to speak. I will start with these thoughts:
Marriage is a perfect institution, made up of imperfect people.
Marriage will never go away on this earth because it was instituted by God in the garden of Eden.
Marriage is Holy.
Marriage is a physical depiction of a deeper spiritual illustration of Christ (the Groom) and the Church (the Bride)
These aren’t my ideas, they come from the Bible. That’s why marriage (and when I say that, I mean the traditional kind) can stand on its on. God started it and God will end it as well.
Jesus answered this question when He was on earth.
That same day the Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection, came to him with a question. “Teacher,” they said, “Moses told us that if a man dies without having children, his brother must marry the widow and raise up offspring for him. Now there were seven brothers among us. The first one married and died, and since he had no children, he left his wife to his brother. The same thing happened to the second and third brother, right on down to the seventh. Finally, the woman died. Now then, at the resurrection, whose wife will she be of the seven, since all of them were married to her?”
Jesus replied, “You are in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God. At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven. But about the resurrection of the dead—have you not read what God said to you, ‘I am the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob’ He is not the God of the dead but of the living.”
When the crowds heard this, they were astonished at his teaching.
So, marriage was started by God and it will be ended by God in eternity. End of story.
Marriage has really taken a beating in our modern society. I have heard it mocked, seen it twisted into all sorts of shapes and sizes and kinds. I have heard cynics blast holes in it, and I have seen people ignore it completely. I have heard the argument that it ruins a good relationship. I have seen people scoff at it and roll their eyes over it. I have seen people marry over and over again until it’s just about stripped of any meaning.
But none of that taints the perfection or the Holiness of the institution itself.
The thing that concerns me the most about this whole debate is what it means for the future of our nation. For I still believe that a nation that supports a healthy view of the traditional family will remain strong, while a nation that loses its moral fiber will perish. (Think of Rome, for instance)
Those of us who don’t recognize the validity or right of two people of the same-sex to marry will be called all sorts of ugly things. I have already seen it. We will be labeled as hateful, bigoted, homophobic, unkind, and intolerant. Not to mention ignorant.
While those who do support it will be painted as loving, tolerant, compassionate, kind and wise.
Both sides will forget to love.
Both sides will forget that we are all in this together.
And with all this talk of love and rainbows floating across the news feeds of America and the world right now, there is really only One great love worth celebrating.
His name is Jesus, and He came to this world to defeat sin and save sinners (of whom I am chief, right along with the Apostle Paul) He was and is love personified. Love with a capital “L.”
He came down here to defeat sin and death forever, and He had to die a terrible and tortuous death meant for you and me in order to do that.
He even went to hell so we would never have to go there because He doesn’t want us to be separated from Him ever again.
That is the Love I am celebrating today and everyday. And everyday, I am grateful and in awe of His great Grace that continues to cover my great sin.
That’s a Love worth celebrating.