My post today is dedicated to a very special lady whom I met on Facebook. She regularly uplifts me with the things she posts there. She goes by the name “Sam Bobtail” but that is not her real name. It is her dog’s name she uses because she loves him so very much. She lost her faithful friend yesterday and today I am posting this poem I wrote when I lost my cat Buster several years ago. This is for her “Sam” and all other furry friends we lose. Grief and loss look the same and there is no way to measure the sorrow, human or animal, it’s all just sorrow and it was never in God’s original plan. That is why it feels so very wrong…….
Don’t tell me it’s just a cat.
How can you be leaving my life so soon? You’ve been a part of my life for so long now, a little shadow, always beside me.
You were dragged out from under a house with your litter-mates and right away I knew you were the most special. When I picked you up, I knew you were the one.
How could something so small lighten such a load of grief? Your little presence broke through such clouds of sadness in my life. A little dynamo, tearing around the house destroying everything in your path, then settling onto my lap or shoulder when you wanted to be sweet.
Years went by and you remained a faithful friend. Through all the moves, joys and heartaches you were there, never failing to come when I called you. You’d jump up to settle on my lap and settle in just a few inches from my face, purring that rattling purr and doing your best to assure me with your steady gaze that everything would be fine.
It always was, except for now.
The vet says you won’t live much longer. The cancer moves fast to swallow up your little life. I see your size diminish, but not your spirit. How can I say goodbye to such a faithful friend? I gather your little weightless form into my arms and tell you everything will be allright, but I know it won’t.
I can do nothing as you breathe your last breath, my tears falling on the soft coat I have stroked so many times. It’s the least I can do after all you’ve done for me.
So don’t tell me, it’s just a cat.
He was so much more than that. (Born April 1989-went to chase dragonflies in Heaven July 2001)
Dedicated to Buster and Sam Bobtail and all faithful friends we have lost over the years.
A happy addendum to this is that I got Sydney after Buster and he is so like him it is uncanny. The grief does make way for laughter and joy again, but as with all loss, it takes time. While we have to deal with the pain this side of Heaven, there remains the bright light of hope on the other side of the darkness. Jesus hope.
6 thoughts on “When you lose a faithful friend”
If there are typos in this, it’s because I’m crying and can’t really see what I’m typing. this was/is beautiful! You are a gem, Lori.
Oh thank you for the kind words Pam, I know we all understand this. It never gets any easier does it when we lose them?
Oh, these words just a week after our family pet was put to sleep, so hard, so good. I’m sorry, Sam, for the difficulty you’re going through. And I’m sorry Lori, for the pain you likely still feel.
Duane…..I was thinking of you too as I posted this, I remember seeing something on FB about your family dog but I didn’t hear anything else so I didn’t want to bring it up. I know it’s so hard and sometimes it takes a while before you can talk or write about it. Thinking of you and all your family. I know it is still hard….
Beautiful, Lori. I can so relate to this I can hardly write for the tears–and it has been twelve years since I lost Daniel and then Isabelle, two years later. Thank God for Baxter!
Aw….they just stay in our hearts forever don’t they? What’s that saying about paw prints in your heart? They do that. Thank you so for your kind words.